Sunday, April 12, 2009

Did my girlfriend like my valentines gift of balloons and flowers?

I gave my girlfriend 3 boquets of flowers and 20 balloons for valentines day. She seemed to enjoy them but the balloons didn%26#039;t last. She popped about half of them after one day and popped the rest about three days later. I didn%26#039;t see her pop the ones that were on the floor. They were gone when I got home. She did say that some of them were dieing and she had to kill them I did watch her pop the rest. She would pick them up and pop them with her fingernails and laugh. She said she was a killer and laughed after popping one. She seemed naunchaulant around them and tolerated them being around and would just kick them around. Then all of a sudden she would start popping them. She seems to like them but should I get her balloons as gifts again or do you think she doesn%26#039;t like them. Do you think she pops them for fun or out of annoyance. Should I ask her if she likes to pop them or just not get them again and just stick to plain flowers? What do you ladies think?

Did my girlfriend like my valentines gift of balloons and flowers?
i am a teenager and i think that it is very original.
Reply:its seems liked she liked them..but only for a couple hours and probably was annoyed that there are so many balloons everywhere. from the way of her actions, i think she was expecting something else. honestly i think flowers and balloons are a waste of money!!! my boyfriend got me flowers and chocolate for v-day...and i love that he put in effort to see me happy but i really much rather get something else....flowers die like the next week...and balloons as you know just lay around....i think effort and showing her that you love her is the key. my bf made me dinner at home and watched tv while he plays poker...ahhaha that i loved!!!! it was fun we laughed and talked. i got him a water filter for v-day and i know its not romantic...but he has been saying that he really needs one...don%26#039;t waste your money on balloons and flowers that die so fast...get her something that she can remember the v-day memories..where she can look back and think it was a great v-day..instead of getting your typical flowers balloon chocolate..you don%26#039;t even have to spend much...really listen to her thru-out the days, months, years...get her something she can use thru out the years and not throw away or die. don%26#039;t ask her...just listen to the small details of what she wants and just think about it.
Reply:damn son 20 balloons? did you think of her favorite color she likes? or If she likes chocolate..I only gave my girl a Balloon it came with some body stuff a rose a teddy bear and she was happy..oh and some chocolate..How old are you?
Reply:that sounds like a cute idea %26amp; it sounds like she liked them but I wouldn%26#039;t get her balloons again. You want to get her something she doesn%26#039;t have to destroy as a gift. And like others have said, you want each gift to be original! you could ask her how she felt about them if you%26#039;re really curious though.
Reply:I%26#039;m not a lady, but you%26#039;ve gotta be original. I would say, by the reaction that you described, that she liked the balloons and thoroughly enjoyed them, existance and destruction. Don%26#039;t do it again; never the exact same, and similarities must be spaced apart. Sing her a song, and do it sensationally. Only you know how to do that. If not, ask casually about related items and come up with a plan. It%26#039;s just you and her, so really, don%26#039;t be shy; be sentimental. She%26#039;ll love you for it.
Reply:if she loves u not ur gifts so she like ur gifts if she loves u bcoz of ur gifts so she did%26#039;nt like it
Reply:I am a woman and I have to say that I don%26#039;t think she liked them at all. You%26#039;re instincts we%26#039;re right. She was expecting something else and wanted to be gracious with what she got but clearly was upset. I%26#039;m sorry. I wouldn%26#039;t try flowers and balloons again. This is something I have to tolerate from my husband every year. He never knows what to get me and sometimes I have to wonder does this man know ANYTHING about me at all. I even went as far as giving him a wish list and still he got it wrong. So being direct didn%26#039;t work either. I don%26#039;t know what to tell you, but don%26#039;t stop trying.



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