Sunday, April 12, 2009

How do I get my boyfriend to give me gifts without telling him to?

It%26#039;s been three years, and not once has he given me gifts, sent flowers, or even a card to say Happy Birthday. How do I get hime to send me this stuff without him asking or telling him I want those things?

How do I get my boyfriend to give me gifts without telling him to?
SEND yourself some flowers and when he sees them say %26quot; oh I wish I knew who sent them isnt that the sweetest thing ever?%26quot; Either that or hey Im one of those girls that if u gotta ask for it or hint for it I dont really want it cuz it didnt come from THEIR heart! You could start giving him little presents and cards and he might get the hint that way. U know like Easter is coming- make him a basket full of candy and yummies and then he will feel like an *** for not hetting you anything. THAT might make him stop to think!!!!! Good luck to u!
Reply:try buying him a gift
Reply:I agree. Give him a random gift. Something you know he wants. Then write a note saying something like %26quot;I know you really wanted this, and getting presents always make the day brighter, so here you go!%26quot; Something cheesy, but point out the importance of showing appreciation. If that doesn%26#039;t help, just tell him. Guys can be thick headed!





Also, you might try bringing home flowers for yourself or send some to your office. That way he will see how happy it makes you, and hopefully he will want to do the same for you!
Reply:did u only think of gifts cuz thats rude u should think of love not gifts
Reply:subtle hints...oh you should have seen the flowers so and got from so and so. they were so beautiful and she was just xstatic the rest of the day, boy is he going to get lucky tonight. make sure you add on the last part this way he knows there is also something in it for him
Reply:Be subtle about it.Hint at things that you like when your walking around a mall together.And leave little notes around for him like %26quot;do you remember that awsome ring at the mall?%26quot; Just be subtle about it and he%26#039;ll learn that you want him to get something for you.
Reply:HE CAN NOT READ YOUR MIND. IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOU SHOULD TELL HIM. JUST BE UP FRONT WITH HIM OR YOUR GOING TO BE STUCK IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO GIFTS. SORRY COULD NOT BE BETTER HELP BUT IT WORKED FOR ME.
Reply:Well, since he obviously hasn%26#039;t realized it on his own, I think that you have to mention something, some subtle and then not so subtle hints or just sit him down and talk to him about it!
Reply:Drop subtle hints, or just come out and tell him men are not mind readers if you have an open communication relationship you should be able to express your needs and wants.
Reply:You want him to give you gifts? What for? Can%26#039;t you buy your own? Its 2006 women don%26#039;t need men to buy them gifts.





You could drop a hundred hints you he get it. Or maybe he is stingy, or he hasn%26#039;t a romantic bone in his body.
Reply:give him a gift. That is the way
Reply:Why should he give you gifts? Freindship, honesty, love and a since of humor is all you ask for at first. sounds to me like your headed in the wrong direction
Reply:find someone who will, and let him know how much you appreciate, that person giving you something, and if he isnt clueless he will notice and start buying you things to get the same response. you may even buy yourself something simple make a big deal out of it, and say so and so gave it to you, and he will pick up on it if he cares, and he%26#039;ll seek that kind of response from you too.



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