The "designated" gift is flowers for girls what is it for guys if any?

why%26#039;s the man gotta buy stuff like that and supposed t o hold doors for girls and all that jazz when all of these woman are pushing to be considerd equal

The %26quot;designated%26quot; gift is flowers for girls what is it for guys if any?
Guys don%26#039;t have to buy anything. It%26#039;s a romantic gesture and a way of thanking the girl for going out with the guy. It puts things on a good note to begin the evening.





If I am invited to a guys house for dinner or whatever, I usually bring the wine.
Reply:More imporant than the gift is the thought and motivation that it represents.





I think your questions confuse %26quot;obligation%26quot; with %26quot;regard%26quot;





While some degree of self preservation seems to always factor into our motivation, your view that these actions are just obligations gives your questions a tone of shallowness, resentment and emotional immaturity. (I am not intending to insult you- I just want to point out that this is not a good approach if you want to endear yourself to a wider selection of females) You will be happy to learn that a man is not obligated to %26quot;buy stuff%26quot; for a woman, nor is he %26quot;supposed%26quot; to %26quot;hold doors for girls and all that jazz%26quot;.





The act of gift giving or extending a courtesy is meaningless to the receiver unless it is performed out of a sense of regard. Men who sincerely treat women and others with regard and thoughtfulness tend to also possess a greater sense of self-respect and confidence in themselves- they are not threatened by a woman%26#039;s success or desire for equality, they recognize the value of creating harmony and happiness around them, and consequently, they tend to be much more attractive to women.
Reply:The designated gift for guys? Submission, of course.



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